A Simple Thought on Who’s Worth Your Tears

However well-meant it is, please do not tell a heartbroken person that someone who hurt them, someone they loved, is “not worth their tears.” First of all, you are in effect disrespecting their depth of feeling.* Their tears say more about their heart than anyone else’s, and your perceived “worthiness” of the person who hurt them is … Read more…

Look Up! A Poem for a Busy Fall: “October Canopy”

October Canopy - Novosibirsk

Fall seems to be the time of speeding up — but also of slowing down. The academic year begins; schools and families launch into a flurry of activity; summer sleepiness rouses into the frenzy of harvest and winterization (and I don’t just mean the fields and tractors). On the other hand, something in the soul … Read more…

A Simple Thought on Finding Life in Stillness

Something I really love about the Russian language is that states of silence and color can be verbs. For instance, if something is white, you could express it as a static description — it is white — or, more poetically, as an action: it whites. It’s the same with silence. Someone can be silent, or, on the other hand, … Read more…

A Simple Thought on Not Publishing One’s Thoughts

A Simple Thought on Not Publishing One's Thoughts

Ignore, for a minute, the tremendous irony of the title. Some time ago, a friend of mine who is a Benedictine monk (and priest) shared with me a remark made by his novice master: “Every now and then, try to have an unpublished thought.” That small remark has stuck with me in the back of … Read more…